I've had requests from clients asking for definitive answers to major life decisions, such as "Should I marry ________?" "Should I sell my property to ________?" "Should I leave my secure job to work for ________?"
I can understand wanting God or the Angels to make a decision for you. Often, the choices we must make trigger fear...fear of making a wrong turn. First of all, as my very wise mother once said, "Most of the things we fear never come to pass."
Second, we have free will, our gift from God that permits us to sometimes make and learn from our mistakes.
Third, as long as we learn the lesson of the mistake, it is not necessary to return to the same lesson later in life.
Fourth, in answer to your specific query, God and the Angels will answer in a way that does not take your freedom away, rather than give you an absolute. For instance, in answer to "Should I marry________?" you will receive something like "New love is yours should you choose it." In answer to "Should I leave my secure job to work for ________?" you will receive a response that tells you "It's time to try new things, go on an adventure, be creative!" but it will NOT specify the new thing you must move toward. The most your reading will tell you is that "The road is clear to move ahead with a new project," but it will NOT define the new project, adventure, work or person your new trajectory is with. I would add that if anyone does give you a definitive answer such as "You WILL marry Joe Smith," or "You WILL go to UCLA,"You WILL divorce your husband," they are interfering with your freedom to choose and that individual may have some unchecked control issues.
An ethical psychic told me, "I see you returning to school in 3-5 years." He saw it and his "seeing" left me with a choice whether or not to go to school and if I did go I could choose where. On another occasion the same psychic said he saw that I was with a person who was causing me a great deal of angst and, "I hear you saying if this guy doesn't stop doing what he's doing, we're through." His prediction, if you will, still left leeway for me to make the final decision as opposed to saying something like, "You must divorce your husband! He's no good for you!"
The Highest Powers who speak through an ethical psychic want what is for your highest good and will always suggest things to turn you in that direction and protect you from harm. At the same time, God and the Angels know that someone who operates on flimsy ethics could face serious repercussions if they direct you definitively rather than suggest possibilities. If a client is clearly directed by a psychic to marry a certain person or leave a secure job, and that marriage or replacement job turns sour, the client could blame the psychic, when in actuality the freedom to choose is ALWAYS yours!
As for fear, sit with it. Where is it coming from? You may be able to discern the right choice by running each possibility through your mind while sitting quietly. Pay attention to what happens in your body with each scenario. Usually one choice will cause more tightness or anxiety than the other. The value of listening to your gut feeling is priceless! We are all on a journey of growth and sometimes mistakes happen. In the long run, when we grow from the experience we are much further ahead.
The Angels are always with you to comfort and encourage.
Wishing you many joys and the freedom to choose!